My father was a pastor, college administrator, and a teacher. In his early ministry he was an artist who used colorful chalk drawings on Christian themes to illustrate spiritual truths. People loved to watch him depict biblical scenes with artistic skill. He would draw a large picture during a church meeting accompanied by background music.
Ahead of time he had traced the faint outline of his picture in pencil. Then when he drew the colored rendering in chalk, the depth and richness of the picture appeared, especially when illuminated with colored lights. The effect was almost magical.
1 Corinthians 13 is an outline of a Christ-controlled life, a life of of love. The description given there is like my dad’s preliminary sketch, made visible when the full drawing was completed. It is a description of Jesus’s love in the life of a believer who is surrendered to him.
For example, it says that love is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4). There may be occasions when righteous indignation is in order, but a loving Christian will seldom reach that point.
I read an illustration of two mountain goats who met on a narrow ledge. There was no room to pass. They both reared and bucked, but neither one gave way. Repeatedly they backed up, charged and locked horns. Each one held his ground and stood unmovable. Finally the more sensible one knelt down and let the other climb over him. Both of them went happily on their way.
Love is kind. This is another aspect of Christ’s love. It is a word which means “mellow,” in the place of harshness and severity.
An anonymous poet wrote: “Let us be kind; the way is long and lonely, and human hearts are asking for this blessing only — that we be kind.
“We cannot know the grief that man may borrow; we cannot see the souls storm swept by sorrow; but love can shine upon the way, today, tomorrow — let us be kind.
“To age and youth let gracious words be spoken; upon the wheel of pain so many weary lives are broken; we live in vain who give no tender token — let us be kind.
“Let us be kind; the setting sun will soon be in the west; too late the flowers are laid upon the quiet breast — let us be kind.”
Love does not envy, does not boast, is not proud. Jesus said of himself, “I am gentle and humble in heart” (Matthew 11:29). The loving person is a humble person. The loving person is like Jesus.
Love is unselfish. Love seeks the good of others. We always see this in the life of Jesus.
Love is trusting. “It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” The loving person does not keep a tally of offenses. Love commits the list to the Lord and does not bring it up again.
Love is truthful. It “rejoices with the truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6). Those who are infused with Christ’s love have no difficulty affirming the truth wherever it is found: in others, in oneself, in the scriptures, in Jesus who said, “I am the truth” (John 14:6).
Love is optimistic. Love “always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” Christ’s love never fails. It is durable, resilient, and it refuses to accept defeat.
If someone could draw a portrait of Christ, it would look like the outline of love we see in 1 Corinthians 13. If we want to be like Jesus, ours will be lives of love.
Pastor Randy Faulkner