Ask, Seek, Knock

I have been privileged to pray with Christians in other countries in a variety of settings. In the Czech Republic I stood with worshippers who prayed with hands folded for an extended time as one person after another led in spontaneous prayer. I witnessed the praying of hundreds of South Korean Christians who gathered at five o’clock in the morning to pray for their nation. They prayed aloud, in unison, a great chorus of intercession. It was my privilege to gather with thousands of Ethiopian believers who met on a mountaintop for an annual prayer retreat. They were there to pray for revival and the spread of the gospel in their nation.

These believers took seriously the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:7-11, when he told his disciples, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you.” This is an audacious promise. We are tempted to hesitate, to equivocate, to doubt. After all, we are small and insignificant. God is great, and he has a universe to run!

But our Lord Jesus is repeating a direct command: “Ask, seek, knock.” He goes on to say that every Christian may pray this way, boldly and confidently, whether they live in Europe, Asia, or Africa. I hope my American brothers and sisters are praying as fervently and as passionately for our nation as the believers I observed overseas were praying for theirs.

To illustrate this, the Lord asks us to imagine a child coming to a parent with a request for something to eat. Earthly fathers and mothers, even though they are not perfect people, know how to give good things to their children. If this is true, how much more will our heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him in faith? He wants us to come to him with our needs.

Someone might raise the objection that prayer is unnecessary because God already knows what we need. There is an obvious answer to this. Our praying is not to inform God, or to overcome his reluctance. He wants us to pray because it is a way of acknowledging our dependence on him and our devotion to him.

Another possible objection is that prayer does not always work! God does not always give us what we ask for. “I prayed for a job, and I am still unemployed.” “I prayed for healing, and I am still sick.” The best way to think about this is that God is not a cosmic vending machine. We must come to him on his terms. He may say “no” to a prayer of ours because he has a higher purpose than we can see at first. We can be as thankful for unanswered prayers as for answered prayers.

There are examples in the Bible of famous believers who prayed and did not receive what they asked for. Abraham prayed for the city of Sodom to be spared, but God destroyed it anyway. King David prayed for his baby to live. The child died. The apostle Paul prayed repeatedly for his “thorn in the flesh” (possibly a physical affliction) to be removed, but the Lord said “no.” God had something else in mind. Paul was to learn humility and to rely on God’s grace.

The fact is, our human understanding is so limited, we do not always have the wisdom to know what is best for us (Romans 8:26). If God gave us everything we asked for, that would be a terrible burden to bear. We would be left to our own limited understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). The best way to pray is the way Jesus prayed: “Your will be done,” the prayer that never fails.

Jesus’ encouragement to us in Matthew 7 is to pray boldly, persistently, with faith, bringing our desires to the Father. His “ask, seek, knock” is a reminder that the Father welcomes our prayers. He is a good Father. He gives only good gifts to his children.

Pastor Randy Faulkner

Alternatives to Worry

People are worried. Parents are worried about sending their children to school. Teachers are worried about the health risks of being in the same classroom with children who might carry infection. Many people are worried about unemployment. Everyone seems to be worried about the economic consequences of the pandemic.

Here in Oklahoma there is considerable worry about whether or not there will be football on Friday nights and Saturday afternoons. Ryan Aber, writing in our local paper said, “A fall without football, or even more a full school year without football, could be devastating to college athletics in the short term.”

Speaking of devastating, the effects of worry itself can be devastating. I am privileged to serve on the board of directors of  a faith-based counseling ministry. Throughout the last several months, our therapists have been busy caring for many clients who have been struggling with the emotional effects of anxiety.

Jesus’ words have been on my mind. To those who trust in him as savior, to those who call themselves his disciples, he said, “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life?” (Luke 12:25) In other words, if we do not have the power to control a few minutes of time or a few inches of stature, it makes no sense to worry about the great issues (such as a global pandemic) that lie beyond the scope of our control.

In  a few sentences in this discourse, the Lord Jesus Christ repeated the statement “Do not worry” three times. As an antidote to worry, the Lord told his followers to think about God and to acknowledge his ultimate control over our lives. If we do this we will recognize that the God who feeds the birds and gives the flowers their beauty, is perfectly capable of caring for those who trust in him. “How much more valuable you are than birds!” Jesus exclaimed.

This is a reason to be thankful. “Your Father knows” (v. 30) what you need. The Westminster Shorter Catechism, commenting on the Lord’s Prayer, reminds us: “The preface to the Lord’s Prayer, which is ‘Our Father which art in heaven,’ teacheth us to draw near to God with all holy reverence and confidence, as children to a father able and ready to help us; and that we should pray with and for others.”

I need this encouraging word from Jesus.  “Your Father knows.”The collection of prayers called Valley of Vision has a simple prayer that is meaningful to me: “Teach me the happy art of attending to things temporal with a mind intent on things eternal.” That is a prayer worth praying, especially when life is full of distractions, disappointments and disruptions. “Your Father knows.”

So today I invite you to read Luke 12:22-34. Read it again as if for the first time. Our Lord’s words offer real alternatives to worry: meditating on God and his loving care for his children and thankfulness for his faithful provision for our daily needs.

“Thou hast given so much to me/ Give one thing more — a grateful heart;

Not thankful when it pleaseth me;/ As if thy blessings had spare days,

But such a heart whose pulse may be: Thy praise.”  (George Herbert)

Pastor Randy Faulkner